I don’t have an iphone. I have a tablet–where i have instagram, but have no connection with it to my computer. Oh wait, I can cordlessly connect with some program I found to transfer music!!! BUT i think my pix files would be too big and i’ll have to resize them first. I’ll fiddle around with it when I’m not swamped with cross stitching. Thanks so much PlanetJ!!!

I only have a couple pix on instagram, that I took wtih my tablet—i think just my legs out on Robinette Ct. beach 😉 I’m oevilone on instagram as misstia was taken……my user icon is the same no matter what site i’m on!

You CAN upload from a camera..I do! download your pix to your computer..then hook your iphone up to the computer..mine download like that! give me a day or two and I’ll help you work it out.. I download to the PC..then to my iphone..then I use my editing apps..upload to instagram.
I don’t have a facebook..only insta and twitter. 🙂
I’m serious..if you need help trying to get it to work..I’ll do my damndest to help you get it working! xoxo

today was my first interaction with daisy……i know she’s relatively new and i haven’t been in the comments much the past few months, so i haven’t seen/read much of her comments….i was minding my own business cross stitching (very important stitching!!!!) today and took a break and got THAT! yeah, that threw me for a loop…..then when i saw it on your post and on others? stitching done for the day! i’m an aries—warrior!! 🙂 i have 5 planets IN aries, so yeah, i guess when i get fiery, i get going good! my concern is 99% of the time for OTHERS….i saw that posted, not just to you, but to others too…..she did imply someone told her to do that, but didn’t say who….whomever it was, if they were named would get it from a variety of people….daisy is new and perhaps felt that she should go along with them? i don’t know, i can’t speak for her…..i did say, i thought she and whomever felt they were being well intentioned…..but there’s no rules on OT, tony encourages it, so those who don’t like need to learn how to collapse the conversations 🙂 this happens about once a year—-some people get a bee in their bonnet about OT postings……different people too….

ALWAYS feel you can let it fall out like a waterfall here!!! the bunker IS and SHOULD be a ‘safe’ place for us! you ARE liked!!! i can empathize how such a comment could make you feel though…..

i’m sorry you’re not feeling well today!! hope it’s something you can quickly recover from!!! ooo….photos via email….i gotta say most of my pix are on FB, are you on FB? i can send ’em via email, but i gotta resize em or they’re huge! (I can and do do that though!!!)…..since i use a real camera my pix aren’t on instagram—why can’t i upload pix to there from my computer dammit!!!! wouldn’t that be great??

ack! 11:30pm EST, i gotta go feed the dogs, it’s way past bedtime!!! (((BIG HUGS)))

thanks SP you are kind.

It will all be OK.

I’m a fighter when I have to be..but,I’m really sick today and can’t do it. Thanks for taking up for me tho! (I do appreciate it,with all my heart!) just for clarity..I do love,Daisy. I think she got caught up with the ones that don’t like O/T (fun) and (maybe was made to feel guilty?..just assuming)..I’ve had a lot of fun with her. so..I wont stay mad at her. But I wont lie..yes,I was off topic..in my first comment that started this, I was in shock and very sad. I Was asked what was wrong..and I let it all fall out like a waterfall. So…it’s been 7-8days since this happened? and I get that comment under a comment thats a week old? it just confused me..then I wanted to leave..or not say much on here anymore..I get paranoid that ppl don’t like me already (which most of the time I don’t give two fucks :P..but it got to me today for some reason)..Daisy was one of the first to be nice to me..or chat with me..or laugh with me..show kindness to me (that means a lot)..so I’ll get over it…
but hey..I can’t keep my mouth shut for long on anything..it’s not in my nature. 😉 anyway..Even tho that hurt a little,I’ll get over it,,I love Daisy..she knows it. Which is a huge thing in and of it’s self..I’m a true taurus for gawd sakes..lol..I have the Taurus nature down to a “T”..lol..we usually don’t forgive and cut people right off,if we feel slighted in anyway. But..I’m not going to do that to her..if she was a mean bossy bitch on the daily..then YES! I’d stay mad..but..that’s not her..and she knows it..I know it.

Thanks again. give it a day or two..Daisy is a sweet lady..I KNOW she really loves us. (YOU TOO!) xoxo
I’m saving your email..maybe we can check out eachothers photography!
J~ ((((HUGS))))xoxoxo

NO!! Don’t scale back!! Our proprietor has strongly encouraged OT conversations (i think I included the link for you to his comment showing that) and who above him can say what goes? There seems to be, currently, a few people who have a bee in their bonnet against OT conversations. They have driven away a few people already. I brought it out in the open today by posting about what happened to me—cuz gosh, never tell me NOT to post something like that! 😉

I’m sorry I didn’t see your comment right away (it’s been 3 hours), I was replying on the bunker and not looking at disqus. I KNOW you’re real!!! Some people like to barge in to the bunker and try to act like they own the place. The thing is, we ALL own the place, it’s a COMMUNITY and the community is fostered by our OT conversations!!! If people don’t like OT discussions they can hit the ‘hide’ button. And as for daisy, she’s been saying sowwy to a variety of people for saying the same thing to them—yet she kept saying it, um, hello?? I got even more irked when i saw her acknowledge that Tony said we could talk OT and he encouraged it. Then she keeps up telling people to not talk OT on current threads. When I saw what she wrote to you, I really saw red. I’m so so sorry for what she said to you. That was the wrongest thing in the world to say to such a comment and I’m sorry about your friend.

You ARE always welcome in the bunker!!! IGNORE those who try to play comment police and always feel free to talk OT!!! ALWAYS!!!! We’re a community who is there for each other!!! If you ever wanna talk privately, never hesitate to email me tia(at)misstia(dot)com I just feel awful you got targeted and want to scale back on bunker banter….

((hugs))

Thank you

One last thought. If you haven’t already, watch the interviews with Tony on Media Mayhem on Youtube. Spend some time going down the youtube rabbit hole. You may come back into the Bunker with a new perspective.

Tia is old school. You have been here for three months and most welcomed you and joked with you. There aren’t rules here but there is a decorum most subscribe to. You might step back and watch the dynamics and behaviors. There is a niche for everyone.

Most people don’t go back to old stories to talk about things. Most people who disagree do it briefly and defenders make their points and move on. Most issues blow over here. Most people lurk and lick their wounds after their feelings are hurt, but with rare exception, they come back to cheers. We all go OT and we all have known this for a long time. It usually happens at night but our wittier posters can do it seamlessly all day long. Tony’s recent reiteration about OT is not a revelation.

We are different here because we generally respect each other, don’t tell each other off or swear when we disagree, make sure our sexually inappropriate jokes are smart, too and mostly, we never piss off Tia. Or Nola.

These are not rules. They are observation. Perhaps you would benefit from lurking, learning and limiting your questions to specific things. More specifically, and since you asked, don’t go to another thread to talk about people here Nd don’t accuse them of being mean, attacking you etc just because you are uncomfortable. I have rarely seen posters attack someone unprovoked. Presume those who are new to you are not new to us and listen first before you respond. You just appear a little unstable with all your rapid and erratic responses. I know you’re upset, but dial it back. Which by the way, is another way to tell a friend to calm down when they are upset. It isn’t mean.

Since you asked, just go silent for a while. Right now your olive branch looks like a baseball bat.