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What ever I did to piss you off , I am sorry. Please feel free to collapse me.

No worries at all, love! I hear you, and I appreciate you answering me. I totally understood. I was trying to be helpful. Lurker was here earlier, so I’m sure he is okay, and everyone is okay now. Much love, Miss Tia Xoxo

i wanted to make sure you understood where i was coming from, hence my long explanation….since you had taken time, and i appreciate that!!!

No worries at all.

I realize you took the time to put those links together, but with no disrespect to you, I prefer not read them. I’ve been thru enough the past 24 hours. As long as I’m left alone by the one who said they’d ignore me and others aren’t being haggled like some of us were yesterday (by anyone, i don’t want to single that person out) then i can dial back from a 6 (my scale goes to 11) to my usual 2 2/5 (i like odd amounts ;)…..

i’ve reached out to lurker…..what i think a lot of new people don’t realize is that many of us communicate on fb, emails, etc….if we don’t hear from someone we either know how to reach them or we know someone who does and ask them too…..we all care—hence one of the reasons we’re all here…..

and at the end of the day, we’re all here for the same reason (well of course for the small % of trolls, but i hope they see that they have no effect on us, hi elle!!) and whether we disagree, get along, discuss cookies (nom nom nom), cats/dogs/toads, etc we all know we belong here, we feel safe here, and we have our moments and we won’t look at some people—-though i’m inclined to think we’d probably defend them if they were attacked—–but we’re ALL here for the same reason and we all care about the community……