Arthur Conan Doyle come to mind when considering the difference between intelligence and gullibility.

So, I looked up this “touch assist” thing; I was thinking, ‘well, touching can’t replace sound medical procedure, but touching someone when they are out of sorts or in pain can be comforting so it sounds somewhat kind.” But then I read you had to do it with just one finger! Leave it to scientology to take something that could, in essence, be a form of comforting and turn it into something to annoy the hell out of someone! “Oh, you broke you collarbone?” “How does that feel?” “How about now?” “LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE!!!!”

I probably did some of these things for 6 months or so. A very painful and complicated family issue made me go beyond my fears into a counseling office. I think the overly conversant aspect is just human nature when we are trying out any new skill, new diet plan, great parenting advice book,,, new trainer, home remodel, etc.. My friends were good listeners to me,and I try to return the favor to keep balance in relationships. The months I spent in counseling really helped me gain that elusive inner peace most of us look for. My experience did not lead to dependency and gave me very practical skills. I hope every day not to be permanently upset or dumb ;). My goal to keep learning and share encouragement and offer peace and love. This is only my own experience, your mileage may vary. I would be interested in hearing more about your experience if you care to share. We can all cheer for common decency and generosity of spirit. Friends with those traits are real treasures!

You are just the perfect wildlife for this site! Welcome.

Used to live in San Diego, this whole concept hit me hard. Deserves to be widely known!

Yep, unfortunately I think narcissists have no self respect….

A good psychotherapist will give you ‘homework’, meaning stuff you have to work on your own. The idea is to give you the means to cope with your issues yourself after some time. Unfortunately some people like hanging on to their issues and some psychotherapists like money….

Smith only led them as far as Nauvoo before he got murdered. Young led them to Utah.